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Maddox's avatar

So many Catholics are looking for alternatives to dating apps, so much so that retreats end up doing double duty, both matchmaking with Christ and between couples.

Is it not within the mandate of the parish to honestly facilitate the dating scene for Catholics? I don’t know if this looks like partner dancing, speed dating, young adult bowling night, or whatever. Just a thought.

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I've seen people make that movement here in Ireland from emotion to virtue, to use the framework presented here (although I think it needs to be nuanced a bit.)

We're blessed with a lot of different movements which have sprung up over the past fifteen years. People move from one to the other, for example encountering Jesus in a university chaplaincy group, then going to a national Eucharistic retreat group to begin service, then giving a year of mission with NET Ministries. The key thing, the absolutely crucial thing, is accompaniment by priests and religious and older Catholics who are wise and able to pastor them.

Young people can benefit from the movements if they have priest/religious who know them personally, have journeyed with them through difficulties and can say to them "OK now it's time to serve;" "OK now what about your vocation" "here is a resource that will benefit you." No program is doing this on a nationwide scale although it is happening. It's just spiritual fathers and mothers living out their vocational call within and around the movements and using all the opportunities at hand to create space for young Catholics to grow in discipleship.

There is a LOT of hope!

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