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Aaron Babbidge's avatar

Why does it seem like there is such a temptation to make kids earn confirmation? Whether it be requiring service hours or however many years of sacramental prep like in this article. Give them the sacraments without all the hoops to jump through, but then continue formation after that. Some of the gifts of the Holy Spirit imparted at confirmation are wisdom, understanding, and knowledge. Wouldn't having those graces help kids understand the Sacraments more fully than another year or two of classes?

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Balthazar Augustine's avatar

I actually just wrote to our pastor a couple weeks ago because I noticed that he was splitting up the sacraments of initiation for people who were entering the Church as adults and suggested that this wasn't allowed. Beyond that, as we now have two children entering sacramental preparation (one for First Communion and one for Confirmation), what bothers me is that — as was my experience with marriage preparation — it's "programming". I think all too often the parish/diocese purchases a "program" for sacramental preparation and it has the effect of making them feel like they are doing something ("we have a program!"), when it's not actually personal or sensitive to what each person needs to grow in faith. Our parish now makes children wait an extra year to receive First Communion and our 8 year old, who is deeply formed in the faith, must go through 6 months of classes with videos of "Olivia the owl" that are — in my estimation — absolute garbage. Sorry, I guess this touched a nerve.

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